“Have I missed the mark, or, like true archer, do I strike my quarry? Or am I prophet of lies, a babbler from door to door?” –Cassandra

Do you love a Scientist with Asperger’s?

Welcome to my new blog. Are you in a relationship or dating a brilliant scientific kind of man? Maybe a mathematician, computer geek, or physicist? And sometimes you wonder if you are on the same planet with him, or maybe in a parallel universe, definitely a different reality? Do you sometimes feel all alone with your feelings, your perceptions, and even your day-to-day life?

Well, I’ve been there and thought that I was going totally crazy. I lost my bearings and felt sucked into a downward spiral. I had no idea why I felt so off balance and unsure of myself when I was with the dearest man I have ever been with. An absolutely pure, gentle soul.

How did I fall into a black hole with such a beautiful, kind, amazing person?

Just by chance, I found out what was happening to me, but way too late.

Let’s share our experiences online. We can support each other and provide a lot of information for the other women that still don’t understand what is happening in their “wonderful” relationship, before it deteriorates.

So much in the relationship is truly “wonderful,” but we can appreciate the great parts better when we start to understand the parts that are still mysterious.

I look forward to hearing from both sides, the person with Asperger’s Syndrome and the person that loves, but is clueless or struggling.

Most of the literature (all of it fairly new) is for parenting a child with Asperger’s Syndrome. There are very few resources for those of us that are encountering it as adults. So, we need to connect.

Any related topic is welcome and we will need to discuss everything, otherwise we will continue to feel very isolated in our anguish and may think it is all our own psyches. I did. I thought it was just me and ended up in the hospital. Finally, I read about Cassandra. She did go mad. Let’s reach out to each other in support, so we don’t fall into the “black hole” and can learn ways to keep enjoying the very special people in our lives.

Thanks so much for visiting my new website. Let’s save our relationships and save our sanity!!

Your comments are very, very welcome. Or, you can email me for more privacy. My email address is

I’m really looking forward to hearing from you,